Venus Retrograde May 17-June 27 2012 - The Universal wakeup call!

Wow what a wake up call from the Universe!  Some of you are saying "what the heck is going on right now in the heavens"?  I'm hearing from some of you that your boyfriend/girlfriend needs their space and the void in your heart is heartbreaking. That lonely feeling is starting to creep in and the tears are endless with thoughts of "why is this happening to me again".........This is why we have Venus in retrograde, so we can re-evaluate where we are valued by others and loved. In addition to how much we love ourselves, our self-worth. Our worth should never be measured by anyone but ourselves and unless we love ourselves, no one can or will love us!  

Relationship 101

For a relationship to be successful you need to have your own thing going on. You hear me girlfriend / boyfriend. There is no "I live for your love", "your my world"! That's Bullshit! Wake up people! A successful relationship needs room to grow, breath and change through the years. Life has ups and downs and growing pains and times of great joy. You can't be like a floatie tied to the other person. You will end up being boring and needy which will bring you much heartache in the end.

The key to success is going along the path together.  Each one bringing something interesting to the table.  Sure in the beginning all you want to do is be with each other 24/7.  But as the relationship matures and grows and the years go by you should be able to be yourself with one another.  You should be each others best friend.  You should have your own things that make you happy, IE. hobbies, things you like to do either with friends or a career that keeps you busy and interesting to the other person.  And you should have things that you both share as a couple and enjoy together, i.e. travel, great restaurants, being foodies together, movie buffs, etc.  That is the time that you bond with your partner, loved one.  Now this is a very important point for reaching success in your relationship!  Absolutely no be-litteling each other to your friends about the likes and dislikes of the other person!!!!!  Especially in person!!!!!  (Nag, nag, nag, wine, wine, wine)  Well you just opened the door for he/or she to cheat).  Be careful!  They will find someone else that respects and makes them feel good!  Because you definitely do not respect them and make them feel good!!!!

Another important point- Over time both of you should have grown more confident within yourselves in addition to being a better person because you were able to grow together in love and respect and inspiration from just knowing each other. 

I know some of you are saying that "is all too much to expect" and "this is not real"?  Yes my friends,  this is what a healthy relationship is all about and one that will last a lifetime.